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What To Do When Your Spouse Or Your Friends Are Negative?
By Michael Losier, Fri Dec 9th
© Michael Losier 2004. You may include this article in yourezine or on your website or distribute it to others, providedyou include the copyright statement and the bio information tagline found at the end of this article. This year (2004), I'vecompleted over 64 seminars. And one of the most common questionsasked is, "What do I do when my spouse, partner or friend isbeing negative?" As you practice Law of in your life, you become moreaware of what you are attracting and start to understand thatyou can control what you attract with deliberate use of Law ofAttraction. The more deliberate you become in controlling whatyou want to attract, the less and less tolerant you become ofany situation that doesn't feel good---in particular, negativerelationships in your life. But what do you do when the personwho is being negative is your partner, spouse or child? It's notlikely you will just eliminate them from your life altogether.How can you deal with a situation that is contaminating yourpositive energy with negative energy? First of all, I'd like you to remember that it takes two peopleto argue or fight and you always have a choice about what youchoose to talk about. When you are with your mate, or friend orchild and they are complaining about something they don't likeor telling you how much their life isn't working in somerespect, you always have two choices:
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You can buy into their conversation, join it and therebylower your vibration to match theirs; or 2) You can steer the conversation in a direction that createschange in the vibration How do you steer a conversation into a more positive vibration?It's quite simple; just ask the question, "So what do you want?"That question may surprise them because they are not used toanswering it. They may even have some resistance. But keepasking it. When they do answer, you'll soon hear their wordschange and see how the change of words always creates a changein their vibration. The best news of all is that a person canonly hold one vibration at a time. Yes, we all have negative people in our lives, but now you havea tool to use when you feel your positive energy becomingaffected by anyone's negative energy. From now on, yourexperiences with negative people can be different! Here's your assignment! Write the question, "So what do youwant?" on post-it notes and put them by your phone, on yourfridge and on your bathroom mirror. This is a powerful tool thatdelivers rapid change! About the author:Michael Losier, a Law of Trainer and author, supportspeople in understanding and practicing the Art of DeliberateAttraction, so they can have more of what they want and less ofwhat they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Lawof for many years and enjoys a wonderful andrewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC.www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.
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